Every single one of us, no matter what it may look like on social media has bad days.
Life is just not meant to be easy or feel good every day, it’s just not. You will have to push through some bad days along the way. This is the inevitable truth. It’s not being pessimistic, it’s being real. You have to know that you are capable of getting through.
This is why I talk about your vision. It’s so important that is attached to something that makes your heart happy. Something to call on that makes you say, “fine, I’ll do it even if I don’t feel like it”.
Do you know what that is for you?
I’ve found that my life has felt better when I attach my focus to goals (ways I want to feel mostly) and not people, money or material possessions.
When you push through when you don’t feel like it.
When you decide not to react the same way.
When you decide not to ignore how you feel AGAIN today and do something about it.
This is when things start to CLICK!
And even after all of that you’ve been through, there will still be bad days.
They call that life!
So come to peace with that and you will enjoy life a heck of a lot more, I can promise you that.
Focus on the small victories. Focus on what makes you feel good.
Allow yourself to experience the full ride this life offers though. Appreciate and be grateful for what you encounter as it is all building you up for what you are meant for.
I use to say I didn’t want things that I really did want because I never thought I could achieve them.
Some of those things were: true friends, loving relationships, a body that I am at peace with, a career that made a difference and strength to share. It’s sad that I didn’t feel like I could achieve these basic needs but it has driven me to appreciate it and life more now.
It all comes down to the way you define success.
One more (very important) thing:
Other people’s opinions of you don’t define who you are.
You are the only one who can decide that! Own your choices.
Everyone has different opinions of you. Heck, my opinion of me changes from hour to hour some days. How about this? Instead of trying to please everyone (which is impossible!), be happy with who you are and ease up on yourself!
And if someone isn’t happy with who you are, that’s life. Not everyone is going to like you, accept it and move on with pride that you are here.
Be YOU, your world will adjust.